|       Undergraduate and graduate
students experience a great many stresses in their lives - sorting
out one's identity, establishing and maintaining important relationships,
coping with anxiety and depression, working on changing relationships
with parents and other family members, dealing with losses, handling
new academic demands, and dealing with
reactions to one's differentness.
To help with these tasks, Counseling and Psychological Services provides
a variety of psychological counseling services for all students of Rutgers
University in New Brunswick/Piscataway, undergraduate and graduate. Services are free, and confidentiality
is guaranteed within legal and ethical guidelines.
Counseling and Psychological Services was created in September, 2006, by joining the major mental health services on campus into one organization, as part of the Rutgers Health Service. Besides the College Avenue offices (formerly Rutgers College Counseling Center), counseling offices of Counseling and Psychological Services are located on the Cook/Douglass, and Livingston campuses. Psychiatric Services and the Alcohol and Other Drug Assistance Program for Students (ADAPS) are also part of CAPS now.
      Counseling and Psychological Services provides services for
all students at Rutgers in New Brunswick.
      In order to be seen for couples counseling, both members of the couple must be Rutgers University students. If one of the members of the couple is not a Rutgers University student, they
will be offered off-campus referrals for the couples counseling or for thier own individual
work.
      We do not provide counseling or other services by e-mail or other
electronic media. People not affiliated with Rutgers should seek
help from a local university or community service.
      Most people come to CAPS when their usual ways
of handling problems aren't working well for some reason. They may
have found, for instance, that talking to friends or family about
their problem is impossible or unsatisfying. Many students who
come feel upset in some way - depressed, angry, scared, or
confused. These upsetting feelings may have been set off by a
number of situations:
- Trying to begin or maintain a relationship
- Feeling the loss of someone close
- Concentration problems while studying
- Anxiety about tests or speaking in class
- Questions about "coming out" or other identity issues
- Procrastinating too much
- Wondering why one is in college
- Becoming aware one may have a problem with alcohol or
drugs
- Struggling to become independent from parents, or not to lose
touch with one's family
- Concern about family members or friends who have something
wrong, such as a drinking problem, divorce, serious illness, or
death
- Reacting to an unwanted pregnancy or a traumatic experience
such as rape.
      There are many other reasons people come for counseling. Personal
counseling is a chance to learn how to resolve personal problems
or issues that are puzzling or upsetting, talk with someone not
personally involved with a situation who can give feedback from a
different perspective, and learn new skills and ways of looking at
situations to become more capable at solving problems in the
future.
      You can make an appointment for counseling by calling the main counseling office at 732-932-7884 or any of the other counseling offices. You can also stop in at any of the counseling offices during office hours. We will offer you the earliest appointment available at any of our offices. The first appointment will be an
introductory or intake interview, which will require an hour and
a half. This will give you a chance to say what has been bothering
you and to talk with the counselor about what options are available
for further counseling. When you make the appointment, the
secretary will ask you for your name, phone number, and student (or
social security) number. The phone number will be used only to
call to confirm your appointment, or to change it if necessary. You
can ask that we not call you, if you prefer. When we call, if you
aren't there we would usually leave a neutral message saying, "Please
call about our meeting," or something like that, instead of saying
Counseling and Psychological Services called.
      Keeping appointments is very important. If an emergency arises,
please notify us as soon as possible that you will not be here.
This allows us to offer the time to another student. As you may
have experienced, there are times when the demand for services
means that clients have to wait (longer than any of us would like)
to be seen.
What happens during the first
session at Counseling and Psychological Services?
      The first thing you will do is complete some background
information, which takes about half an hour. During the session
with the counselor, several things will be accomplished. First,
you will have a chance to describe why you are seeking counseling,
and why you chose this particular time to do so. Also of interest
will be things like how long you have been troubled by this
problem, what you have tried in the past to solve it, whether it
resembles problems you have had in the past, something about your
family background, and other possible areas of interest like a
history of abuse, substance use, and general health. At the end
of the session the counselor will review with you the various
choices available. These usually include:
- having another session to come to a more complete picture of
your situation
- assigning you to a counselor, either the one you are talking
to or someone else, for ongoing counseling
- making an appointment for you to talk with a counselor who
leads a group to decide if the group would be most helpful for
you
- putting you on a waiting list (which we try to keep to a
couple weeks maximum)
- referring you for a second opinion, for example to one of the
campus psychiatrists
- suggesting some other action you could take to improve your
situation
- referring you to another therapist or office either on or
near campus, if they offer faster or more useful services.
      Counseling groups are often the best way to work on problems,
especially when the problems deal with issues about your
relationship with other people. A group gives you contact with a
few of your peers, along with a counselor, who are not part of
your everyday life and so can give you more useful feedback. It
is also a safe environment where you can test out different ways
of acting with others. The specific groups available each semester
vary in theme and time, but in recent semesters we have offered
groups for: students with eating disorders, students with general
interpersonal issues, women over 30, graduate students in helping
professions, and general graduate student interpersonal groups.
For more information, see Group Therapy:
Often the ideal assistance. You can also connect to a list of groups currently being
offered.
Other common questions about
counseling
For comments on this web-site, contact Mark J. Forest, Ph.D.
or call 732-932-3966.
This page last updated: June 27, 2007
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